You are not responsible for meeting others' expectations of you. But it's a two way street - they are not responsible for meeting your expectations of them either.
What are expectations? They are the anticipated behaviors that you or someone else thinks will happen in a situation.
We have expectations of others just as they have expectations of us.
From our standpoint, we expect certain behaviors from people depending on who they are in our lives and what we want from them. From the labels they have, such as mother, father, sister, brother, partner, friend, we create a set of expectations. And when those expectations are not met we feel betrayed, disappointed, and rejected, depending on the situation.
What about others’ expectations of us? They expect certain behaviors of us too, depending on their relationship with us and what they want from us. And if we do not meet their expectations they feel betrayed, abandoned, and rejected.
Can you see a pattern here?
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