When we feel stuck in our life it's time to move the needle or consider changing the record and choose a new theme song for our life.
It isn’t helpful to waste time regretting the past. The past is unchangeable and is its own reality where we can spend the rest of our life in endless trauma feedback loops or we can use it as a stepping stone into a new, more empowered, expanded reality. The deciding factor is whether we’re going to ‘move the needle’orchange the record.
You’ll understand those phrases better if you remember vinyl records and record players.